It wasn't supposed to be this way. I thought I would be spending most of this fall chasing down votes and working day and night to secure another two year term in office. While I have been campaigning hard, it has been difficult.
Most of you know that my father is real sick. He has been that way since the beginning of September. Everybody goes through the aging parent thing. It is never easy. But this situation is different because over the years my father and I have developed a friendship beyond father and son.
As father and son age, their relationship ages as well. Old grievances seem to fall away, each learns to accept the things in each other that you just can't change. Each learns to appreciate things in one another that they didn't know they had..You know, it's the "yeah, the kid has learned a thing or two" and on the sons side it's "geez, I didn't know my old man knew so much". It's just the evolution of the relationship.
My father is a hard nosed, frustrating, stubborn Yankee. Make do with what you have, save for the future and hunker down. Lightening quick temper, lightening quick to forgive and forget, cranky, incredibly kind and thoughtful, part rogue and part gentleman, "you better be fair to everyone", intelligent way beyond his formal education, razor sharp mind. The ultimate paradox and I love him for it. That's him, and he makes no apologies. In his heyday, look out...
Yesterday he had an eight hour plus surgery. Last night I was called in at midnight, he was very sick. Around 2 am he rallied and stabilized. That is where we are today. Sitting by his side late at night in lets you reflect on a lot of things -those hours late a night in an empty hospital make you think.
I lost my mother in 1998. I didn't get to say all things I wanted to say to her before she passed. I won't make that mistake again.
Thanks to an awesome wife..Thanks to my family. Thanks to my friends. Thanks to the City Employees who stopped by the Hospital to see how I was doing. Thanks for the terrific life I have had up to now. We are lucky, and I am lucky. Family has to come first, even if you are the Mayor..
All the Best,
MayorMark