Memorial Day
2008
Ladies and gentleman, Gold Star mothers, veterans, friends and my fellow Danburians, I am honored and proud to once again address you in honor of those American heroes who as Lincoln said “paid the last full measure of devotion” to our Republic.
I would like to thank the Danbury Council of Veterans for a wonderful parade. I would also like to thank our Director of Veteran Affairs Pat Waldron for the compassion that he shows to the veterans of this city each and every day.
Memorial Day is a day like no other. Since 1868 we have come together in our communities, towns, and cities to place flowers and flags on the graves of those who answered the call of duty. Today, we honor the living, and remember the dead.
Legend has it that Memorial Day or what was once called “remembrance day” or “decoration day” began when mothers of fallen soldiers of the South placed flowers on the graves of their sons who died in the Civil War. The interesting part of their remembrance was that the mothers also placed flowers on the graves of the Northern soldiers who were buried at the sides of their children. This act of tender mercy led to the declaration of a national day of remembrance for all of the fallen.
I guess that it is only fitting that mothers started it all. After all, they have paid a supreme sacrifice for our countries liberty. The child that they raised, that they laughed with, that they cried with, and that they shared life with- is gone.
The families of all of the heroes of our democracy have also paid a sacrifice. Each night we see scenes on TV of another family devastated by the loss of their loved one in Iraq.
As we speak here today, there are thousands upon thousands of mothers with sons and daughters in Iraq who are praying every night before they go to bed for the safe return of the child. We must never forget their payers and we must let the families of our ser vice men and women know how much we care for them.
But still, it is the mothers that I think about. What do we say to a woman who has lost all that she is. How do we share with them our compassion our sorrow. How do we let them know how proud we are of their sons and daughters? I am not sure if anything that we do or say here today can really ease their pain. While the memories and the images fade, the longing, love, and pain of their loss does not.
So we set aside this day, this Memorial Day, to honor the living, and remember the dead. Part of our ceremony must be to honor the families of our soldiers as well. They have also made a sacrifice to our country. A sacrifice that endures through the decades.
There are many things that we are called to do to show our devotion and to demonstrate our gratitude to the families.. We owe to the living, as much as we owe to the dead, the preservation and protection of our republic and our democracy. We owe to the living as much as we owe to the dead to participate in our democracy. We owe it to the living as much as we owe to the dead to elevate our communities, and to work together for a better tomorrow.
Today, on behalf of all of the residents who reside here in our wonderful city, I want to say thank you to every family, every father, every mother, every husband, every wife, every son, and every daughter of the servicemen and women serving in the many battlefields and military posts around the globe.
But I still think of the Mothers. Mothers of a far away time, who on a warm spring day began planting flowers on all of the fallen soldiers graves, regardless of what side they fought on, because only a mother can know the true sacrifice made and only a mother can understand the price that has been paid for our freedom.
Indeed, it is the mothers who understand the true meaning of Memorial Day.
Let the rest of us never forget..
God Bless America, God Bless the City of Danbury.